If you don’t see failure as a win, you don’t know what winning is. One of the many misery’s that we men put ourselves through is when we don’t LEARN from our failures and test’s from Allah
Why did Allah do this to me? Why did Allah take this away from me? Why isn’t Allah letting me suffer?! The wise thing to do is to search for why Allah is testing you. Why did Allah take whatever away from you? Men grow when we see the test as a teacher.
Personally, I always found that when I didn’t immediately search for the wisdom of why Allah was testing me, He would just give me the same test later in life until I did search for the reason. Save yourself a lot of pain and misery and look for the wisdom of why Allah is testing you.
